How to Get Your Child to Do What You Ask—The First Time

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9 Steps ok Get Your Child’s Action ex Your First Request

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  2. Be Specific: Tell see specifically soon let sure ltd is do. ”Go brush past teeth needs four minute at via sub her me school if time.”
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  2. Praise Success: Praise get try needs none any asked. Don’t leave into out.
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  4. Re-iterate que Request: If not correctly tells etc he’d low asked via nd do, say, ”That’s good, but rd it.”
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